A few weeks ago, I came across this saying on social media: “Comparison is the thief of joy.” To say it struck a chord with me is an understatement. For as long …
Military Life
Four Things No One Tells You About Being a MilSpouse
The military has changed over the years, and with that, so have the people who make up military families. The term “military spouse” encompasses such a diverse group of people with a …
OCONUS PCS: Think Outside the Gates
Now that I’ve outgrown the phase, I’m not ashamed to admit that I felt trapped when we first moved to Japan. The pre-household goods delivery time that I usually filled with shopping, …
Giving Back Starts at Home
Life is so busy! Some days I feel like I can barely catch my breath, much less find time for lunch or (gasp) a bathroom break. But I’ve found that no matter …
OPSEC: Can You Keep a Secret?
My son got really into my husband’s birthday this year. He wanted to buy him a present instead of just re-gifting things from his own room that he didn’t want anymore. So, …
Celebrating the Deployed Daddy
I have a love/hate relationship with holidays while my husband is deployed. Aside from the emotional toll they take, I struggle with how to make him feel included in special occasions from …